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“Brighten up your love life with Olivia St. Claire.” --Cosmopolitan
The sexy siren inside you is a pleasure-loving creature. When you taste a ripe peach, wear silk against bare skin, or revel in the sweet contractions of orgasm, you release endorphins that make you happy and sassy. So to become the sort of lover who can bring any guy to his knees, drench yourself in the pleasures of living and loving.
A Whiff of Love
Tap into the sensory pathway between the nerves of the nose and the brain’s arousal center. Spray white ginger perfume on your linens, then unfold the fragrance onto your bed. Nestle a cotton ball, drenched with jasmine oil, between your breasts. Bathe in lemon-grass. Saturate a handkerchief in ylang ylang, wear it next to your skin, then leave it beside your guy’s computer.
No-Hands Massage
Your body is a great massage tool. Press your nipples into his chest. Hard. Then slide them down his belly and circle his genitals. Do the same with your pubic hair. You’re rubbing him while his body caresses you, making every erogenous zone stand at full attention.
Vacuum in the Nude
Everyday chores become a tactile thrill when your skin is exposed to cool air, warm dishwater, and the tickle of a feather-duster. As you bend and scurry about, blood rushes to your free-swinging breasts to make them tingle. Air whispers between your thighs and flows into crevices usually sheltered from sensation. If you’re not careful, your guy may actually “help” you with the housework.
Bath Bliss
Light several candles, grab a glass of wine, and bring your bathwater to between 95 and 100 degrees—the ideal temperature for a sensual bath. Sprinkle in 4-7 drops of lavender oil to soothe, orange to enliven, or jasmine to feel sexy and bold. A sensual trick used by the ancient Joy Maidens of Babylon was to pour scented water, with a cup, over breasts and genitals—yours or your lover’s.
G-Force
Insert a fingertip to pinpoint your G-spot, then place a vibrator on the knuckle remaining outside. Stop short of an orgasm to beckon your man within. The deep vibrations will make you swell inside (so you encase him more tightly) and feel wild as a tigress in heat.
Warmer Than Thou
Put a big, lush towel in the dryer for a few minutes. Wrap it round your naked body and step out into the night air. The hot/cold zing wakes up sense receptors and makes you hungry for more Now what? Lay the warm towel between your upper halves while you slide against each other and join up all the remaining naked parts.
Top 10 Sex Tips: Unleash Your Inner Sex Goddess
by Olivia St. Claire
from Handbag.com (partial excerpt)
Handbag image © 2008 Handbag. All rights reserved. Excerpt from “Top 10 Sex Tips: Unleash Your Inner Sex Goddess”, Copyright © by Olivia St. Claire.
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