Unleash_Your_Sex_Goddess

“Brighten up your love life with Olivia St. Claire.” --Cosmopolitan

Fantasizing is as natural as walking, sleeping, and breathing. In fact, we can’t seem to stop doing it. And why would we want to? The exciting sensory images that come unbidden from our subconscious, from the heart of our most intimate erotic reservoirs, are as necessary to our lives as the bread we eat, yet as naughtily delicious as chocolate. They make our skin tingle, our hearts flutter, and our deep inner caves moisten. And like magic carpets, they transport us to enchanted realms of raging desire, perfect love, and unashamed carnality.

Impose No Limits

While few of us would actually have sex in the middle of New York’s Times Square, fantasizing about it can be delicious, healthy fun. So don’t label yourself a pervert or nymphomaniac just because you like to dream about being trussed up, blindfolded, and ravaged by twenty-seven Mongol warriors. Enjoy the rare opportunity to explore the impossible and step into someone else’s skin. Whatever your weirdest fantasy, there are at least a thousand completely normal women whose kinky castle building is even more off-beat than yours. Make no judgments. Take no prisoners or guilt trips. These private tours are safe within the boundaries of your head and heart.

Use Props

Make your fantasies as real as possible by adding dashes of tactile reality--a filmy scarf for your harem sojourn, a blindfold for bondage fantasies, juicy fruits for fantasy love with Tom Jones. And always have your favorite toys readily available--vibrators, videos, scented massage oil. Your erotic castles in the air become much more solid when draped with the stuff of reality.

Here are a few suggestions to stimulate lush fantasies:

1.Think about a man, situation, or previous lovemaking session that made you shiver. Savor the sounds, smells, and textures that went with it. “I once had a lover who had the most beautiful smooth skin. Just the smell of it drove me insane with lust. Whenever I want to get hot, I remember that musky scent and the feel of his skin against my chest. I imagine I’m swimming in that smell, that it’s pouring in through my nose, mouth, and vagina, filling every corner of my body. It turns my insides to warm honey.”
2.Read steamy novels. Become one of the characters, and immerse yourself in the hottest scenes--clothes, food, toys, locales. Those Victorian “porn” books can be delightfully kinky--with wide-eyed, pantalooned maidens turning into sex-crazed, riding-crop-wielding mistresses who love to watch their brothers impale every servant in the house.
3.Walk in nature. When you see a waterfall, fancy you are standing under it with a long-haired Polynesian lover. Se mountains as breasts, rock clefts as mouths to kiss and be kissed by. Let a puddle suggest visions of rolling in the mud with a primitive tribal lover.
4.When you see an attractive man, imagine what he looks and feels like naked. What color is his pubic hair? How would his mouth taste? Does he have a tattoo on his inner thigh? Would he like to shave your mound? What naughty acts would you perform for him? Does he cry out when he comes?
5.Assign yourself a role and see where it takes you. You’re a librarian who just can’t help sneaking hunky young college students between the shelves for some real education. You’re a sports reporter who, finding herself in the football locker room, tears off all her clothes and massages herself to orgasm while the entire team cheers. You’re a 19th century French maid whose master often finds it necessary to spank you for dereliction of duty.

Erotic Visions

While most fantasies are purely for lustful fun, there’s a certain kind of imagining that’s meant to design reality the way you want it to be. Whether that means making changes in the way you or your partner feels and behaves, or calling a new lover to you, these visions are fantasies with a powerful purpose. Indulge in them often enough and you will find your real life starting to take the shape of your dreams.

Unleashing the Sex Goddess in Every Woman

by Olivia St. Claire

from Cosmopolitan (partial excerpt)

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